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Marg's avatar

“A man who is not afraid of the sea will soon be drowned; but we do be afraid of the sea and we do only be drowned now and again” J.M.Synge

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Andy Kirkpatrick's avatar

“The sea always wins”.

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Nicolas Costes's avatar

25 years, I failed to tie my knot and my partner did not catch the error because we did not practice the buddy system. I took a 14m fall onto the wooden floor of the gym (or should I say, through the floor ?). To this day I still love with the consequences of a few seconds of complacency.

Stay safe and keep you buddy safe.

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Ann Shaw's avatar

The informal group of climbing friends I belonged to always practiced the buddy system and we introduced many newbies to climbing. Over the course of their first session with us they got used to being asked to check if I had tied on correctly. Later in the evening I would deliberately tie incorrectly and not a single one of them ever spotted the mistake, until I gently said “are you sure?” They would look again and then see the error. Until I threw in the deliberate error all I had done was to teach them to look, but not to see. After that they never failed to look and see.

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Will Hardie's avatar

In my caving group we do buddy check after gearing up (which may be a crossover habit because many are also divers). Occasionally something gets spotted but I think the main mechanism working here is that knowing a buddy check is coming, you self check properly in order to avoid looking like a tool. A rare example of ego actually being useful in the mountains...

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Andy Kirkpatrick's avatar

That's a great point about knowing the buddy check is coming, as it could be easy for the culture to ditch the buddy check, as it never finds anything (just like a sergeant major rarely finds a dirty rifle on parade!).

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Marg's avatar

Indeed!

Synge used ‘drownded’ in the quote. Alas spellcheck robbed it of its poetry whilst I was distracted typing!

Words matter. Would a buddy system have more appeal to those fragile, dare I say macho, egos were it to have different name?

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